Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
1 Corinthians 7
1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
To avoid the sin of fornication you are to be married. If you are not married you need to be abstinent.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
You are to give kindness and respect to your spouse.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.
As a husband or a wife we are not to deny sexual pleasure from our spouse except when abstinence during time of fasting and prayer is a mutual agreement. Continue reading